Your Attitude + Approach is EVERYTHING!

You could have the best business in the world or your dream job, but without the right attitude and approach, it could be a rough road. You could be the hardest worker in the room, making moves like no other, but if you’re not genuinely feeling good while you’re doing it, what’s the freakin’ point?

This concept took me many years and several draining jobs to get. It took a wise mentor to help me see I was worth more. It took saying “no more” to low energy due to crap health habits. It took putting my pride aside and adjusting my self-imposed expectations. It took strength to take the leap of faith.

Deciding how you want to show up in the world and live your life is completely up to you. You have the freedom to change whatever you want, whenever you want. You have the ability to re-direct your life as you so, please. You have the power to reinvent yourself at any time. The key to this is harnessing your so-called “weakness” and using it as fuel to continue growing and evolving into the bright shiny star you were born to be.

For me? I’ve always been classified as (insert eye roll) bitchy and intense.

I always low key despised it, but after a awhile I began to wear bitchy as a badge on honor. TBH I kinda thought “eff it, I’ll show you bitchy.” It was an immature way to deal with words that made me feel like crap. I didn’t know how to deal with this disruption in my energy systems (negative emotion), so instead of pausing and realizing what others say about me is none of my business, it took it as an opportunity to flex my bitchiness.

Don’t get me wrong, my inner bitch will FOREVER be a work in progress, but over the years I’ve learned to tame her, and now she’s a lot easier to STFU. Can I get an AMEN?!

Tools like meditation, and concepts like gratitude and reflection has played a big part in this shift.

I like to think I graduated from a bad (not-in-a-good-way) bitch to a bad bitch (insert Rihanna meme).

I’ve learned to use this perceived lack or negative quality as a compass for my life.

Knowing THE KIND OF BITCH I want to show up as in the world makes all the difference.

Our attitude directly impacts our energy which creates our reality. What kind of bitch are you going to show up in the world as?